I'm Defeated.

It is raining in my office.

The snow melt is coming from the roof into my workplace, and I am defeated because I will be expected to work as if nothing is wrong with my space.

I am so tired of water emergencies happening that affect me and only me - both at home and at work. Especially the ones at work.

Everyone else is laughing about the situation, but I cannot. I am trying to figure out how I am going to move things from my office into my storage space without them getting ruined in the process. I am trying to figure out how I can be therapeutic for others when my stress has escalated to the point where I am sitting in my house, hyperventilating and dreading having to arrive to a place that is not fit for working. I am trying to decide if I can even face the situation. 

This has happened every couple of years since I moved into this room 8 years ago. Administration doesn't care. They don't even show up to examine the damage. It becomes my problem and my responsibility even though it is not my building. I can't sleep well, I am having stress responses in my gut, and I just cannot seem to handle this situation at all.

I can't sit here any longer. I have to go into my office space and try to salvage as much as I can while emptying buckets, mopping the floor, and doing things that I should NOT HAVE TO DO.

I am so tired of this type of situation happening and others not helping me.

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