Sing A Song Sunday - Kiss the Girl

Today's song is from The Little Mermaid. With words by Howard Ashman and music by Alan Menken, Kiss the Girl is a familiar song to many Americans. Since it is over 20 years old, the song has become part of the musical vocabulary of at least 3 generations of clients. Its an easily recognized song and is strongly correlated with the movie which is both a good thing and a bad thing.

I use this song as either a background figure, to spur movement, or to establish or strengthen a therapeutic relationship. Many of my clients seem to be stand offish until we sing a song together. There seems to be a bit of respect given when they notice that I know every single word to their familiar and preferred songs. Using preferred music is always a good way into building that relationship.

Here's the song chart...
 What songs do you use to start interaction with clients?

 

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